In the same way that burning books is
bad, burning people is bad also. Put
another way, cremation is not a part of our Christian Tradition. Asserting this flies in the face of much
modern North American culture, where cremation is rapidly becoming the
preferred method of dealing with the bodies of the dead, but Orthodoxy
continues to make this assertion nonetheless.
As far as the historic practice of the Church is concerned, cremation involves
the burning of people.
Modern
secular culture denies this. It says
that people—human persons—are to be sharply differentiated from their bodies, so
that cremation burns not the person, but the body of the person. The person—the real person—is identified with
the soul, and this soul resides in the body in the same sort of way that a
letter resides in an envelope. In the
case of letters and envelopes, the envelope has no real and lasting function
apart from the safe delivery of the letter, and after the letter is received,
the envelope may be thrown away. After
all, it is the letter which is of value, and it is the letter which we
keep. In the same way, modern secularism
holds that the soul is the real person, and the body only the temporary
container or vehicle for the soul. When
the soul departs from the body at death, the body has no more lasting value
than the envelope has after the letter is removed. Both may be thrown away, or burned.
Over
against this, the Church asserts that the body is not simply the container of
the soul but, along with the soul, also partakes of the beauty and image of
God. It is therefore not so much the
case that we have bodies, but that we
are bodies—as well as being souls and
spirits. The body is made by God, and
shares His image—not of course that God has two eyes and a nose and ears, but
that the body’s beauty and grace have their source in God. And not only does the body partake of God’s
grace in its creation, but also in its redemption, for it is the body which is
baptized and chrismated, the body which receives the Body and Blood of Christ
in the Eucharist, the body which will one day be raised to new immortal life at
the final resurrection. In a word, the
human body is holy, and is central to our total salvation. Like all holy things, it must be treated
reverently. As said above, consigning
something to the flames speaks of its lack of value. This practice made sense in paganism, for
pagans denied that bodies had ultimate value (that was why the philosophical
Athenians scoffed when St. Paul began asserting that bodies would rise again; see
Acts 17:32). Pagans could cremate and
burn their dead and be consistent with their religious beliefs. Christians cannot, for Christians believe
that the body has too much value to be consigned to the flames.
There
are other problems as well with the present practice of cremation. For one thing, some in the funeral industry who
promote cremation do not tell the whole truth about it. In particular, they fail to mention the truth
that bones do not burn. Flesh burns, and
hair burns, and fat burns, if the fire is hot enough. (When it does, it is not an edifying
spectacle. Indeed, some people who have
witnessed it have said that if many knew exactly what occurs in the process of
cremating a body, they would not have gone through with it.) But bones do not burn, however hot the fire
may be. What then is done with them
after cremation? They are put through a
grinder, and ground down to tiny bits. I
am told that cleaning such grinders is not easy to do, and the bits from one
body can get mixed the bits from another.
Some have told me that talcum powder is sometimes added to make the bits
look more like ashes. This of course is
an attempt to hide from the truth that bones do not burn.
There
are other problems as well. I have been
present when the ashes were deposited in their designated place in burial
grounds. Prayers were said for the
departed, referring to the dead in personal terms, as a “who”. The worker from the funeral crematorium then came,
bringing the ashes in a plastic bag. The
departed had now become not a “who”, but a “what”, for the worker said, “Where
would you like me to put it?” Note: not “him” or “her”, but “it”. The worker was not heartless, and I’m sure meant
no disrespect. He was only doing his
job, and stating the obvious: cremation
had turned a person into a thing, something able to be carried in a plastic bag
under one’s arm and stuffed into a small funerary cylinder. Cremation meant depersonalization.
Here
then is the main difference between cremation and the historic burial practice
of the Church—the latter alone does justice to the personhood of the departed
and to the sanctity of human flesh. This
is not to judge or condemn anyone who has allowed the cremation of loved ones,
for we all do the best we can, and times of bereavement and grief are not the
best times to relearn and rethink. But though
the Church does not judge, it does offer a better way. We do the most honour to our beloved departed
when we avoid cremation, when we commit them reverently in the ground. We need not burn the bodies of those we love. Instead, we place their bodies in the good
earth, and their souls in the hands of the good Lord.
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